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Ohsoloveable

Ohsoloveable

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  • I understand completely how you feel. Its like why does it matter to you? & why would you even bring him up knowing the situation? If its that much of a concern to you then you can wait til I actually have the baby and see for yourself instead o…
  • @2blessed2bestress : lol that made my day but thanks! Best of luck to you too @KrazymomofAdrian : I try my best not to be ... i mean i see why SOME females are like that. He shoulda been there from the beginning which means the night of conception…
  • Oh yeah I'm filing for child support right after she is born. Whether he becomes involved or not I want there to be a legal setting in place for child support. & yeah I don't want her to deal with him like I have these past few months. A child s…
  • Thanks to you all ... i feel much better about this.
  • @navywife : I really hope so too! I wish he just grows up and takes care of his responsibility like he is supposed to but we will see i guess. Thanks though for all the help.
  • @navywife : Yeah ... i see what you mean. Thanks! I think I might just stop trying to get him involved & let him handle it as he pleases. BUT i will let him know that he is either going to be there COMPLETELY or not be there at all. I guess i'm …
  • @excitedforbaby : I told him if FEMALES are what you see this child is causing the biggest issues w/ then your pathetic! And thanks! I hope for the best of luck too :-( @OregonMama : EXACTLY! Shoot i can not wait! I am just waiting for when i see…
  • @excitedforbaby : Thanks for the opinion. It makes me feel better about how i feel and that i'm not the crazy one here lol. But yeah i am filing for child support and where i live they do a DNA test before they file.
  • @Simplyraven22406 : Yeah ... if anything i feel its made me stronger but it's so hard. @OregonMama : That's EXACTLY how i feel. He even told me one time that i need to calm down because the baby isn't physically here yet. & i said what do you m…
  • @Mybabe : I try not to. I understant that it's hard to take in the fact that this lil' human is now your responsibility but its just the crap he has said ... its like are you serious right now?! Like HELLO i didn't make this baby on my own. It's lik…
  • @KrazymomofAdrian : that's how i feel. I want the best for my daughter and he obviously isn't doing that now ... so why should i expect more when she gets here? @Simplyraven22406 : Yes! It is better said then done. I remember looking at other women…
  • My BD did this too ... but he only did it because his family started putting ideas in his head about all the possible ways I could've been cheating on him. I know with my BD, he is just trying in anyway possible now to not have to take responsibilit…