Advice for first time moms/dads from a first time mom (and for anybody else lol)... Probably TMI.

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  • @felicia89 that sux. And taxes are a pain in the ass. And they use tax refunds asd a reason to justify them taking most og the our paychecks.
  • Are you gonna yet to bf at all?
  • I know sometimes I just wanna tell them I'm single lol. but hopefully the breastfeeding works out :)
  • Lol. It is. It is hardest the first 2 weeks, but it gets easier. When you start. Out if you need support come on here and I can help so can other women. I am bf right now with 10 day old who lives to suck. It us hard but it's the best you can give your baby. Plus it's cheaper lol. Butt of you don't bf. No big deal. Good luck. When you due?
  • Thank you I will definitely be coming on here for advice since I've never breastfed. I'm scheduled this upcoming Thursday for my c section. I'm so excited but scared at the same time :/
  • Everything will be okay @felicia89 :) I hope you have a very healthy baby.:)
  • Good luck to you. It will be fine. C sections are very safe. Lol and Breastfeeding is so rewarding. Are you having a boy or girl? And what names? And is this your first?
  • Quick @felicia89 20 questions lol. :D
  • tthanks and I know I hope I last. I'm having a boy,undecided on his name still and nope its my 5th but I act like its my first lol.
  • No big deal. Each kid is different. Me and my siblings are very different kids. Lol I am pretty sure I only want 2. Did you bf with your outher kids?
  • I never wanted kids and now look at me lol. No I tried with my daughter but decided not to do it cus I was young and done lol.
  • Well at least your trying with this one. Support rly helps. @felicia89 which I have noticed is plentiful on here if you know where to look.
  • Yea I'm really going to try and do my very best to keep it up and I also found this place near me that will help with any questions or concerns I have on breastfeeding. They don't go by income so that helps a lot.
  • Thats awesome. Like I said support helps and it is a great feeling. But maybe that feeling is just because I just had my baby and feel elated all the time.
  • this is amazing info on it lol i love it!! it really helped a lot thanks for posting it!!! i had a lot of questions about this stuff and some of these i didnt even think of!!! :)
  • Speaking of bf, I want to bf and am a ftm. So when can u start to pump to save and also bf. I would think if baby feeds every 2 hrs, u would never have time to pump. So at about how many weeks or anything can u start to store?
  • With Adrian I had to pump my first week. Pump when your boobs hurt. I reccomend having one before you give birth. It didnt take me long for my milk supply to come in. I haven't pumped for awhile but she eats a lot now my milk supply can't build up enough to pump. Warm washcloths on your breasts helps release the milk. Also try talking yo a lactation consultant at your hospital. They are a big help. I am no expert, but I read alot and have a lot of help from my mom. I am happy to help anybody who asks. :)
  • Was looking through my saved posts and thought I would bump this one back up to the top for people to see as it is a very informative one.
  • @sunshine25 thanks i had completely forgotten about this. And I spent a lot of time on it to.
  • @krazymomofadrian just a FYI if you get blood on anything, panties etc, peroxide takes it out. Just put it where the blood is wait until it disappears and rinse. It won't beech and you can put it on any fabric. I have saved sheets underwear etc. Great trick!


  • I totally didn't know that. Thanx. I bought cheap disposable underwear and just threw it away. @momaynot btw what does your name mean??
  • I am gonna keep bumping this back up to the top since a lot of people find it helpful.
  • ** just saving this for later, thanks for the info!
  • @semperfiwife no problem. That is why I keep bumping it back up. I get awesome responses.
  • This is all brilliant. So much better hearing stuff from real people then books. I hate. Baby books they make everything sound so wonderful when sometimes you need to hear the gritty truth lol. 1 tip I was given that I liked, though haven't tried yet, is freezing breast pads to turn them into ice packs. Just put a little water in them. Haven't tried it yet but I thought it founded like a good idea n an easy n cheap way to relieve sore Boobs. Will let you know how it works out once I've tried it.
  • I have also heard that. Especially if you are not breastfeeding or are producing too much. I also know that fresh green cabbage leaves help decrease milk flow. Take two leaves scrunch them up and put them in your bra. @bambi_bump They release an enzyme that helps decrease the flow. No idea how, my doc told me and also read it in one of my baby books lol. Sometimes they are helpful, but like you said they can't tell you everything.
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