@victoriab I some had their at 9 am like wtf is going on in this world..and of course she thought she was grown caz she had some red stuff coming out her lady parts lol smh
The world will never understand why teens ttc.At least get a diploma first.I mean of course you can get one with a baby but why make it that much harder for yourself?
Prime example is muary...mom got preggo young hardly home to give her teenage daughter any attention...so she goes of somewhere in her own mind sayin ?wen I have a baby I will lover and spend time with her" then it goes to I want a baby and no one can stop me"...while her dear mom seeks help and all her daughter wanted was love and attention but her der mom has 2 jobs and has to make a living.smh
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy I understand what your saying. For most people it may be hard. But some people choose paths like mine and actually enjoy it and dont regret it. Im just asking people to see a different side.
@AngeliaAndMe and the teens tried to justify having a period with your body being ready for pregnancy.. your body hasn't stopped growing or maturing to be ready for pregnancy.
@lexi34 XD I thought I was dying! Not grown up! I didn't really feel grown up until I started taking care of myself at 16/17. Unfortunately I couldn't find a job (job market sucks around here especially if you're a minor) so I couldn't get my own place, but I got out of my mom's at 17 and finally got a job at 18. I got married when I was almost 19 and now I'm having a baby. Things have settled down enough to the point where I feel comfortable having a baby now.
Just a thought, what if, heaven forbid, someone she's close to has a terminal illness and she has strong family values, or she was in a home where she was already acting as an adult cuZ her parents put the responsibility on her. Maybe she has an older bf that is going into the service. My point is no one knows her circumstances, it's hard to be a teen mom, but 17 is almost 18 which by law says ur an adult. I had my son at 16, wasnt trying, but it happened, I graduated HS at 17, been in college and working since then. I've done alot in my short life and though I didn't plan it's the biggest blessing. One benefit for me was my son is very close to my grandparents, and our family loves getting together and seeing him, plus my great gma (died 2 yrs ago) was more of a parent to me then mine, and she not ibly got to see my son, but he still remembers her.
I'm not condoning teens having babies, just saying theres endless circumstances for why she might wanna ttc
It kinda seems like this discussion was started so drama could too. I've scrolled way down these comments and have not seen the original girl that posted it, say anything. I don't think she's 17 and ttc. She just wanted to start drama, and guess what ladies, she succeeded.
I'm not here to judge you I'm pretty sure you gon do whatever it is you want all I can say is make your decision wisely. I became a mother at 14 not by choice or my own will I was molested from 12-14 by a man that was supposed to b there for us my mothers fiance. Having a child is hard raising them is even harder I know you didnt ask for this but from personal experience if you are ready financially mentally physically emotionally most definitely spiritually then go for it if not please wait and never make a decision based off love between you and your man cause it takes more than that cause that love is not guarantee to be there forever but a love for a mother and child is a blessing from above no matter what that child will be there when all else disappears
@Allid screw the rest of these so called mothers on here who are judging you because of a choice you decided to make. I'm 19 and due october 1st yeah its going to be hard for you but as long as you got your head on straight and you can handle things fuck everbody else. They don't know what you could be going through to make you decide on such a big decision. Frankly I thought pregly was created to help asssist mothers and those of whom are trying not discriminate cause of age, race, and so forth. This site really makes me sick to my stomach now. To all you pregly mothers saying rude and foul comments get it together there is a better way to tell her how its not wat she wants. ~X(
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XD I thought I was dying! Not grown up! I didn't really feel grown up until I started taking care of myself at 16/17. Unfortunately I couldn't find a job (job market sucks around here especially if you're a minor) so I couldn't get my own place, but I got out of my mom's at 17 and finally got a job at 18. I got married when I was almost 19 and now I'm having a baby. Things have settled down enough to the point where I feel comfortable having a baby now.
I knew what periods were, I just didn't think 10 year old girls got them!
My point is no one knows her circumstances, it's hard to be a teen mom, but 17 is almost 18 which by law says ur an adult. I had my son at 16, wasnt trying, but it happened, I graduated HS at 17, been in college and working since then. I've done alot in my short life and though I didn't plan it's the biggest blessing. One benefit for me was my son is very close to my grandparents, and our family loves getting together and seeing him, plus my great gma (died 2 yrs ago) was more of a parent to me then mine, and she not ibly got to see my son, but he still remembers her.
I'm not condoning teens having babies, just saying theres endless circumstances for why she might wanna ttc