@Proudmama102011 noone is bashing or bringing negativity.we are stating that at 14,you can't really do anything on your "own" to provide.and saying its no longer going to be easy.who said anything about race?
@sands3 fuck you who are you to knock my opinion not everyone was being respectful so like I said dont judge her because yo dont know what she has been through in life to make her decide on a decision like this. >:/
Frankly I can care less bout what any of you had to say I'm a teen mom and I know plenty and if she feel as though she can handle it then leave the shit alone >:/
@excitedforbaby idgaf what you say simple as that and if you dont want me to comment then keep me outta yours cause i directed my comment to the one in charge of this post so leave it be obviously you felt guilty bout something you said
@Proudmama102011 19 is an adult.....but at 14?...I know its already been done and what not but why willingly?there's no situation in the world where you want to ttc at 14,except you just want one.andfor the record I'm 19 also.
@Proudmama102011 why are you using that language?no one is being rude but yourself girl.get a grip...did I say I didn't want you to comment?noooooo.I'm saying you're bringing rudeness to the post.
@AngeliaAndMe bitch please just keep my name out your comment yea I'm 19 as true but that don't mean shit at 17 I had a job, car, and home of my own which I still have I was forced to grow up early so I had my head on straight. All I'm saying is dont never judge someone or their choices unless you've been there yourself.
@sands3 I'm using vulgar lamguage because the way ppl came at me. I gave my opinion I didnt ask for no one to attack me. All I said was there were some ppl who were just being plain rude to her. I have the right to voice my opinion just like everyone else so why jump down my throat about how I felt.
@Proudmama102011-in case you forgot what you first posted on this thread....Here it is....You were cussing and acting a fool right from the start....Go ahead and state your opinion but you don't need to act like that....You say you are "grown" well grown women DO NOT act like that!
@Allid screw the rest of these so called mothers on here who are judging you because of a choice you decided to make. I'm 19 and due october 1st yeah its going to be hard for you but as long as you got your head on straight and you can handle things fuck everbody else. They don't know what you could be going through to make you decide on such a big decision. Frankly I thought pregly was created to help asssist mothers and those of whom are trying not discriminate cause of age, race, and so forth. This site really makes me sick to my stomach now. To all you pregly mothers saying rude and foul comments get it together there is a better way to tell her how its not wat she wants.
@Proudmama102011 ok.but you were 17.she's 14,shesnot gonna be able to get all those things.ok,I'm 19.I have my diploma,don't depend on my mom.if she wants to buy something for her grandchild,cool.but I'm not expecting her to do shit.if you had yours together at 17,cool.but at 14,you can't have nothing together.you're just starting hs.
@BlessedMom_2X thats all I'm saying they act as if its that much of a huge deal. I was 16 when I first got pregnant and lost it at 6weeks do to high stress. After that it felt like my world shattered. I found a way to pick myself up and by 17 I had a decent job, a car, and a home. Once I made my life better I met the love of my life my fiance whom I'm now carrying his child after ttc at 17. The way I see it never judge someone unless you've been there before.
@BlessedMom_2x that's not bashing.that's advice.it may not have been something she wanted to hear,but that's advice....bashing is"you're dumb ass Fuck,you're not gonna be nothing and you're baby not gonna be nothing,you're not gonna raise that child right,you don't deserve a baby"that's bashing.did anybody say that? Nope!
@excitedforbaby i think you got this and the other thread confused, silly. this is the 17 yr old ttc, not the 14.. i had to read it over to make sure i didnt get confused. l0l
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@Allid screw the rest of these so called mothers on here who are judging you because of a choice you decided to make. I'm 19 and due october 1st yeah its going to be hard for you but as long as you got your head on straight and you can handle things fuck everbody else. They don't know what you could be going through to make you decide on such a big decision. Frankly I thought pregly was created to help asssist mothers and those of whom are trying not discriminate cause of age, race, and so forth. This site really makes me sick to my stomach now. To all you pregly mothers saying rude and foul comments get it together there is a better way to tell her how its not wat she wants.