trying to butter up a situation like that is not wat some ppl gonna..and I sure wont and who dnt like it then I suggest thick skin is needed its gonna be a ruff road for these kids ttc..we can all we want but until the experience it first hand they will not get it...give them that fake doll that u take home that you need to figure out wat the babies like maury does with these kids that want babies thinking it cute...trust me would.change their minds
Well ppl r gunna do what they want. But I don't agree on sum1 ttc at a young age. Man I thank god for my 1st son but if I could had waited I would had. Or at least got to pick out a different dad. Lol he ain't there for my son at all. But now that I'm married nd I have myself together w/o help from my mom everything feels better. At least make it to college then think about kids cus when you get in college ur gunna wanna have fun like every1 else.. but hey like stated above if ur already a pregnant teen mom congrats nd god bless but if ur ttc plz think about ur future!! Every1 wants the best for their kids so think wisely (=
I think most of you just need to back off. You are all antagonizing not just 14 y.o. moms but most moms. At 14 we're naive. Im 22 and I still feel naive about a lot bc shit theres so much to learn. From growing old, from falling in love, from experience, mistakes, betrayal, books, culture (not just out own), art and so much more. Not a single one of us will ever know EVERYTHING. So instead of condemning others that are in difficult situations why not educate them with the knowledge they will need to pull through at the end of the day.
If we all start to living our own life and let others to live thefy own life at the way they want we could stop the drama! No one knows wath is going on in others life or homes.so just lets be supporting if we can or just ignore the things we cant deal with.anyways God bless you all :X
i had may first at 17 it wasnt easy or ideal.. but i didnt ttc.. it was my first time and well i got pregnant.. the boy denied my son .. and now hecause of my swift decsion i have to see the hurt in his heart.. i know he will be ok but no matter how hard you try you will make mistakes along the way.. my son wasnt one of them.. i dont condone teen pregnancy by any means but im not in the position to judge.. i mean its taken me 5 years to compleat two years of college courses cause i had to work .. and be a mom at night.. its life you have to live when you want whats best.. i only have two years left .. thers no sugar coating the hard work and effort it takes to care for a child.. i think that these girls are living in a fantesy land.. if they think life just falls into place.. i had my reality check wen my boy was born..
I so totally agree with you ..if it already happened ,it is truly a blessing no matter what but if they re purposely ttc , I must say they should think twice or thrice and a hundred times
Just because they do what they want,makes it ok? People steal,kill,beat,rape,that makes it ok? I would rather try to help a young girl realize how much she would have to give up and sacrifice before she ttc.I wouldn't sit back and say"o well,she's gonna do what she wants".is that wrong?to try to at least make them see the bigger picture than the parts they want to see?
I am 18 right now, i am 4 months pregnant with my first baby. I live on my own with my husband who is now 20. Due to complications in my pregnancy i am not currently employed but my husband is and he has an awesome job. He gets payed real good money and not many hours so we are doing good so far thank God. I love my baby and i cannot wait till i can finally meet my little one, but even me that i am in a "stable" situation i feel like we should have waited. Pregnancy is real beautiful, and kids are adorable and they are a blessing at any age... but the stress they cause when it comes to providing for them can be pretty harsh. I feel that no teen should try to put that kind of stress on themselves.... My mom always told me "Slow down, don't rush into things. Everything comes at a certain time, so take it slow and enjoy your youth." I really do wish i would have waited now. I love my husband, he makes me the happiest woman on Earth...but our lives gave a real fast and sharp spin and i can literally say i saw my life (or the life i could have had) flash before my eyes and when that happens its when you realize it's a little to late. The world has so many beautiful places, and has so much to offer than marriage and kids and i think that teens should give themselves the chance to experience the world before they settle down. Visit places, like get-away islands and theme parks across the nation even across the world. Go anywhere and everywhere... that would be what i would be in process of doing right about now. I love my unborn sooo much, i just wish i would have waited.
@excitedforbaby I dont understand it either, hence the reason i havent even commented on my own post in a while. I did not start drama in any way shape or form.
I also agree with u ladies even tho I am a mom that got pregnant at 1t4 and now at 20yrs old I am having my 4th baby and I threw my entire life away to raise my children!! Yup I messed up but guess what I wouldn't trade my kids for the world!! My kids are my life and this one is my last one and I am getting my tubes tied because I am sure that I don't want any more!! I don't condone it in any way and it drives me craszy to see these younger girls are ttc at 14 and they don't even know whaat the consequences are!! I expierenced the consequenced and they are not fun!! But I will say my babies are a blessing and well worth everything I have been through in this last five years!!
Like I said for the billionth time,if you're doing what you have to do with a plan,then you should not get offended.you are NOT what we are talking about.but if you have nothing for yourself then of course you're gonna get offended.a guilty person always barks the loudest.if it doesn't apply to you,NO NEED to get offended...a lot of people say stuff about adults,do I care?nope because it doesn't apply to me.if it applies then I will speak on it.
Being that.young they have no idea wats wat esp wen it comes to wats going on with their own ptegnancy or bodies....hate me all u want its just the truth.
Omg!yes.one girl said"i think I may be one week pregnant?could I be"...liiiiike really?she acted like she didn't know how her body is.one justified"maybe they didn't know to take a test"lol.
@excitedforbaby they are never going to get what your saying.. no point in wasting your time saying it. i was reading this whole thing and none of them is taking what your saying into consideration and trying to understand where your coming from..
Whats so different about you and them? You dont understand what others are saying regarding about helping them regardless of their situation, since they've already made their choice. They don't understand that the choice they just made is really something they might not be able to handle.
Either way what makes you a better person or mom? I have a great friend who is a great mother and she became one at 15. Who are you all to say she wont be also. I'm just sick of the gangbanging... you've all made your point. Why do you have to repeat yourselves over and over again. Like bitching someone out ever helped accomplish anything.
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I love my husband, he makes me the happiest woman on Earth...but our lives gave a real fast and sharp spin and i can literally say i saw my life (or the life i could have had) flash before my eyes and when that happens its when you realize it's a little to late.
The world has so many beautiful places, and has so much to offer than marriage and kids and i think that teens should give themselves the chance to experience the world before they settle down. Visit places, like get-away islands and theme parks across the nation even across the world. Go anywhere and everywhere... that would be what i would be in process of doing right about now. I love my unborn sooo much, i just wish i would have waited.
thanks for the comment about my belly pic by the way.. its wasnt creepy at all.
Either way what makes you a better person or mom? I have a great friend who is a great mother and she became one at 15. Who are you all to say she wont be also. I'm just sick of the gangbanging... you've all made your point. Why do you have to repeat yourselves over and over again. Like bitching someone out ever helped accomplish anything.