My husband is an attorney. In this state, if the parents are not married, the mother has custody. The father would have to go to court to get visitation and would have to pay child support. Either parent can demand DNA testing before assuming the bd is really the father. If you do not report the statuatory rape at this time, it would come out if he should sue for visitation. If you allow unsupervisted visitation, it would tend to show that you are not worried that he would do anything wrong w your daughter and would make it easier for him to get court ordered visitation.
Print those messages out and if his family wants to go to court then great because you don't have anything you worry about hours the one who will never be allowed to be with his child without someone else watching. And think about that poor 13 year old we were all stupid and thing before and had nasty guys wanna do things like that so not only are you protecting your child but also that 13 year old and maybe even others good luck and let me know what you and your family decide to do
To show how mean i am i would tell the police. If be was convicted you wont have any worries on custody..i wouldnt want him to have any custody until he grew up and showed responsibility..
you need to go get custadody of your child immediatly.. before they go there.. they will not take your daughter from you.. if your taking care of her.. especailly not to give her to the mother cause lets face it you he wont be taking care of her.. as far as im concerned he commited rape.. the girl was 13 wow.. if i were a parent i would press charges against him.. thats discusting and quite frankly id be fearful of even having my daughter around someone who would do that.. its one thing to whore around but hes in a whole nother world.. wow.. good luck girl.. and take matters into your own hands.. and state your reasoning when you go down there to do so..
I was 16 and my husband was 21 when we met. We're still together 8years later and expecting baby number one. I know everyone saying call the police. I just want to say just think about your child. If He's convicted it will affect their life forever.
I don't understand why people are jumping to the conclusion that he would do it to his own daughter. Just because he participated in an act of pedophilia does not mean that he would commit an act of incest. while I don't agree with his actions, I wish the girl would have thought of the consequences. He should too. I lost my virginity at 14 to a 17 year old and even now it's hard for me to think that sex is about passion. There are a lot of emotional ramifications. and for those who are crying 'mud' I'm sure that if you were in this situation Pregly wouldn't be your first worry.
Well it was her first worry to post something like this and make us all aware of the situation. @marysue. Its gross that he would have sex with someone that young. She is 13 wow. She just turned a teenager for goodness sakes. That's wrong. He is 23 and should be held accountable for his actions.
I think what is likely to have happened is she decided to not turn him in and take him back And doesn't Want to tell everyone and have everyone jump down her throat...... I hope im wrong and she is just busy....
@momof5 yea, I know. I wasn't excusing his actions. I said that because just because he was with a 13 year old doesn't mean he would have sex with his daughter. I never said that it was not wrong or that it was not gross. While I should have said that I wish she could know the consequences; he should know them. but thanks for telling me what I already know. and who said it was her first worry? As far as we know she was looking for guidance, found it and is dealing with the situation.
Probably just busy, but I'm impatient. Lol. And I don't give a rats a$$ what people say, 13 &23 is way too big of an age difference. That's friggen nasty
@marysue. Okay now your just getting snotty about it. I've been around for awhile and have seen posts that are made up just because and then they run off and leave ya hanging. Maybe if she didn't want ppl to worry abt her and her baby then maybe she shouldn't have posted then left us hangin. We are not only concerned for both of them but also for that 13 year old girl that obviously has some underlaying issues going on to sleep with a guy that is 23 but also for the guy. Who's to say he's not out there sleeping with other 13 year old girls. What if it was your daughter you gna be all calm about the situation? Yeah prolly not. Well hopefully she went to the cops about it cause that's what needs to happen.
@romeike89. Thanks girl. It is very nasty. She is just a child. That's the sad part.
@momof5 I have been around here for a while as well and I have seen made up drama as well. But I have also seen people say that it is made up and it be completely true. Who actually cares if it is true or not? Not like we'll be seeing the person behind the screen name? The point is to help. Along with the made up drama, I have also seen people that read into things completely wrong and cause drama itself. I've already said what, my message meant. Now I'm being the bigger person and leaving this alone. Good luck.
@marysue. REALLY? I was tryin to help and you had to be the one to stick your nose into it and be competely rude about things. Then you wanted to speak to me like I was a 2 year old. Hello I'm not a child hunny.
And for not seeing the person behind the screen name sorry but you don't know that. I know a lot of ppl on here that are from my area and I have seen them around thank you.
REALLY???? Who cares if its true or not. Uhh yeah I do cause there is nothing worse than trying to get attention by lying. That's something I would expect from my 5 year old. Not from a grown ass woman. Thank you. And I don't think I read into this wrong. It was easy to understand. 23 year old had sex with a 13 year old. NOT TO COMPLICATED. You be the bigger person and quit making comments on what I post then. Thank you and have a GREAT DAY
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while I don't agree with his actions, I wish the girl would have thought of the consequences. He should too. I lost my virginity at 14 to a 17 year old and even now it's hard for me to think that sex is about passion. There are a lot of emotional ramifications.
and for those who are crying 'mud' I'm sure that if you were in this situation Pregly wouldn't be your first worry.
Best of luck to the op.
I never said that it was not wrong or that it was not gross. While I should have said that I wish she could know the consequences; he should know them.
but thanks for telling me what I already know.
and who said it was her first worry? As far as we know she was looking for guidance, found it and is dealing with the situation.
@romeike89. Thanks girl. It is very nasty. She is just a child. That's the sad part.
Along with the made up drama, I have also seen people that read into things completely wrong and cause drama itself. I've already said what, my message meant. Now I'm being the bigger person and leaving this alone. Good luck.
And for not seeing the person behind the screen name sorry but you don't know that. I know a lot of ppl on here that are from my area and I have seen them around thank you.
REALLY???? Who cares if its true or not. Uhh yeah I do cause there is nothing worse than trying to get attention by lying. That's something I would expect from my 5 year old. Not from a grown ass woman. Thank you. And I don't think I read into this wrong. It was easy to understand. 23 year old had sex with a 13 year old. NOT TO COMPLICATED. You be the bigger person and quit making comments on what I post then. Thank you and have a GREAT DAY