the grass isnt always greener--update on bottom
to you girls that told me to stay away from the baby daddy!!!
i nvr stopped txting him and yesterday we "met" up for drinks at his sisters house...i didnt get home ill almost 3 in the morning!!!! you could imagine how much drama it has caused with the bf!!
anway nothing happened btwn us but we were drunk and we got all emotional about why n how we didnt work out--obviously we hadnt gotten over certain things to make a long story short our night ended up with us arguing all over again just like the olsd times--my bf isnt talking to me hes pissed!! he doesnt know i was with him but the fact that i got home at the time--he tells me he knows i was with someone else and isnt talking to me at all!!!!!
so now im stuck with out talking to neither one of them. I LOVE BF idk why i met up w the baby daddy!
i want things to work bt me the bf but what do i do now??? he didnt call things off but its the worst feeling in the world that he cant even look at me noe even listen at all ahghhhhh plz girls give me some advice
i nvr stopped txting him and yesterday we "met" up for drinks at his sisters house...i didnt get home ill almost 3 in the morning!!!! you could imagine how much drama it has caused with the bf!!
anway nothing happened btwn us but we were drunk and we got all emotional about why n how we didnt work out--obviously we hadnt gotten over certain things to make a long story short our night ended up with us arguing all over again just like the olsd times--my bf isnt talking to me hes pissed!! he doesnt know i was with him but the fact that i got home at the time--he tells me he knows i was with someone else and isnt talking to me at all!!!!!
so now im stuck with out talking to neither one of them. I LOVE BF idk why i met up w the baby daddy!
i want things to work bt me the bf but what do i do now??? he didnt call things off but its the worst feeling in the world that he cant even look at me noe even listen at all ahghhhhh plz girls give me some advice
Comments
Take this experience and learn from it. Leave BD alone and attend to BF. Sometimes you have to take 2 steps back to move ahead.
It's time to STOP texting BD and commit your full attention to your BF. What you're doing isn't fair to EVERYONE involved including yourself. Be good to yourself.
He will I'm sure ask you why are you even bothering your BD? He's gonna think as if your acting like he's not good enough to take care of your child that's coming from that BD...Alot of things bad can come from you telling him...
BUT, then again since you didn't come home until 3am he's going to wonder and get very suspicious and most cheats get unraveled by them coming home early morning or in the middle of the night. So if he's already figure3d it out you were with some other man you might as well explain the rest of the story, who the other man was and your intentions.
@YNVTish- yes i wasnt palnning to tell him i could only imagine how crazy that'll make him your right--it isnt fair not to anyone. idk maybe i thought i still had feelings for the bd but as i found ou tlast night i had this illusion i only htought of the "good things" reality hit wen i seen his old ways
BACKGROUND--
me and the bf have been fighting for the past two weeks. Ive been coming h0me from work to find him drunk with like 10 of his friends--it has been driving me crazy so i ask n told him that i didnt wanna deal with that, that shit had to stop n it didnt so i guess when i got invited for drinks with the bd i didnt think twice about it.
But now im the bad person cus i left yeea i know it was wrong but he sure has a way to make me feel like shit
@ExcitedForOctober i dont know what to do-- im hoping it didnt make the worse n me go home to find him drunk again with his friends--which i have a strong feeling that thats exactly what going to happen
@Wilsomom-- id be ferious i know i would i dont blame him for that part i would love love love some major kissing assing as stupid as that may sound; i guess what im trying to say is i would want to make me feel like im hes everythign n that he really wants to me n im trying to do that but he doesnt even want me near him
Can't say what I would do in this situation...I feel like my guilt would eat me alive...you can't build a relationship on trust and loyalty if there are lies anf half truths..