All asians know karate... Men with big feet have big... All serial killers are white, between the. ages of late '20s to mid-40's and sports a porn stash All mexicans steal All black folks sell drugs All dogs go to heaven...
@blueberrysmom... ahahaha!! Well I gave you all my money for meth and now my fat ass husband is beating me senseless for not paying the rent at the trailor park...
I don't think so... if I was in my last relationship I would agree but my fiance now would never do that he has to big of a heart n would feel to guilty. He has been cheated on with every gf he has ever had except for me. N I would never do that we both know how it feels n would never make one another feel like that.
Wow, sorry your man cheated. I would be mad too however such a broad umbrella statement doesn't apply. And for that matter unless gay a man usually cheats with a woman as well. So sorry your going through this though.
I don't believe that every man cheats, honestly. My Soldier has been in the military for the past 5 years, and has already done one tour in Iraq. He told me about several of the men who cheated, and several of the women, too. But he didn't, even though his relationship at the time was very off-on-off-on and she wasn't being faithful, either. He has 150 gigs of porn to keep his urges at bay while he's over there. I see nothing wrong with him having this much porn, honestly. I'd rather him have that then find some woman to satisfy himself while he is away. But I'm also the type who doesn't think porn is cheating or whatever. I'll sit and watch it with him if he wants me to. I actually have on several occasions.
The point is, though, that some relationships are honest enough about things like that. And I believe him when he says that he never cheated on her... or me, when we were together. He had ample opportunity, but it's just not in his nature.
It's all about trust....I have been in a relationship where I have been cheated on...it hurt like hell and I started to find myself making my relationships after that suffer for some DB mistakes.....my husband I have complete trust in....because after all in my opinion if you don't have trust in your relationship then you don't have much of a relationship.....
I agree but why can u do? Im not going to waste mu life worrying about if n when my husband may cheat on me. He almost did and learned u will take the kids n go. I don't see him trying any time soon.
@mandac10 that's the realization I came to...I said to myself I can sit here waiting and worrying about it happening or I can live my life happy and put my complete trust in him because come the end of the day he's my husband and my husband was not the one that hurt me so why should he pay for a previous persons mistakes......I think there are a lot of wonderful men out there that get a bad rap because of other men and that's sad......
@fashion_junky91 I have to disagree with what you posted earlier. Back in the day women weren't even considered people...we were property...we were kept uneducated, we were beaten raped cheated on ect. That is not ok...and no women should be condoning that behavior. Women didn't agree with the behavior they just didst have the resources like we do today to leave.
@redhead25 you are.so right I cant so no to it but after a while like in the 1900 women were alot smarter & this generation alot smarter but today women are.makin the same desicions women were back then am I not right ? Its not about resources its about mind mentality.
Just bc u don't know about doesn't mean he hasn't. I have all male friends and they all say that they have cheated. My man has cheated...maybe on me maybe not but in previous relationships. Its something best not to look for so we don't but if or when it comes to light be not surprised. We are all human
@kells32 I haven't read every single post in this discussion but I've read.quite a.bit. I agree with u. No, not every man cheats. But I do feel quite a few do and/or have wandering eyes. I dated several men who cheated on me in one form or another. One I even let do it 3x before I gave him the boot. I blame the both of us in the relationship though. Him for being a jacka$$ and me for being naive and missing signs I should've picked up on. I had a really hard time in the.beginning of my relationship with my now husband bcuz I kept comparing things he did/didn't do to things the cheaters before him had done, never living him a chance. I almost ruined it! But once I rationalized things and my self esteem went back up I realized he wasn't anything like the cheaters. I think it just takes a lot of time and patience to find the one ure meant to be with. I do also believe just as many women cheat as men do. I've met my fair share of girls that have cheated on their men/my guy friends and they have no excuses either. I think either way u look at it it's just immaturity and selfishness all around.
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Men with big feet have big...
All serial killers are white, between the. ages of late '20s to mid-40's and sports a porn stash
All mexicans steal
All black folks sell drugs
All dogs go to heaven...
The point is, though, that some relationships are honest enough about things like that. And I believe him when he says that he never cheated on her... or me, when we were together. He had ample opportunity, but it's just not in his nature.
I had a really hard time in the.beginning of my relationship with my now husband bcuz I kept comparing things he did/didn't do to things the cheaters before him had done, never living him a chance. I almost ruined it! But once I rationalized things and my self esteem went back up I realized he wasn't anything like the cheaters. I think it just takes a lot of time and patience to find the one ure meant to be with.
I do also believe just as many women cheat as men do. I've met my fair share of girls that have cheated on their men/my guy friends and they have no excuses either. I think either way u look at it it's just immaturity and selfishness all around.